Thursday, June 11, 2009
♥ 9:33 PM
為甚麼神要賜給人朋友？是為了可以互相照應即扶持嗎？那如果你自己覺得幫不了他或他不想你幫，那不是會增加彼此的負擔嗎？我相信在我們生命里出現的每一個人都是上帝派來的， 而在我們在世時他們也會在我們的人生中扮演等等的角色。越是親密，扮演的角色也就越是重要。
我自任是个蠻缺安全感的人。時不時腦袋里會想太多。最近我遇見了從前的一位朋友，一位令我想起蠻多往事的朋友，提醒了我朋友之間為彼此承擔的負擔不是應不應該，而是理所當然。朋友之間一定會為彼此而困惑。儘管自己或對方有再多的不願意，這種負擔是難免的。當不管之時也就是再也不想管的時後了。你知道嗎？這也是我最討厭的部份。想想看，一方面如果你一直為同一個人困惑但時時地沒辦法有突破，令一方面又在想著如果想就不管了，自己又覺得很難脫身，這樣一來其實自己是否比正面臨困境的人更辛苦呢？
okay, actually im speaking in parables. cox i dont even understand what i just typed. haha! Anw, just sth that i thought about on my way home. most of the time we change because of people, because of friends, because of family. God places people around us to help us change, like how iron sharpens iron. different people have different level of influence upon our lives and based on their influence, it will determine the level of change they will bring to us. because no two men are alike, we all have things that we ought to learn from each other and it's based on the level of intimacy of the relationship that we are able to learn from that person.
